Friday

Welcome

Who doesn't want a taste of pink?


Lalita and I want to welcome you to our blog. Topics shall include, but are not limited to: sex; lust; sex with men; feminism; sex with women; gender politics; sex with sex toys; love and its infinite varieties; sex with ourselves; speculation about the bonds between women; bondage; friendship, and other forms of intimate bondage.
(And also Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Laurel K. Hamilton, and other bits of culture 'high' and 'low'.)
And not least this blog shall record what she and I are finding out about ourselves. Both of us identify primarily as hetero, yet both of us have been with women. Both of us are attracted to each other, yet at this time in our lives, agree --reluctantly!--not to act on this attraction to each other, to be friends.
(She makes it difficult though, she's such a hot sexy bitch!)
And if we can do that, it will be a friendship like no other I've had.
I've found it difficult to maintain friendships with women; I don't trust them to be honest with me, I don't always know what they're thinking, I don't understand what's going on when you ask someone what's wrong and she won't tell you.
I had a bad experience also with my one girlfriend, which I'll write about later.

Right now, Lalita and I are involved in some very complicated relationships with men, and we're both in transitional phases. It will be fascinating to see what the next few months bring to each of us, and I hope I can be there for her, to help her grow. She's an extraordinary woman, the sort I've always wanted for a best friend--each time we speak we discover more hidden similarities-- and I am honoured to be a part of her journey.

And she's part of mine.

*kiss* Lalita!
xxxooo
Colette